Be A Good Man, Because A Woman Will Never Forget How You Treated Her

This is absolutely true. I once fell in love with the nicest man on Earth. However, my wants of variety screwed it up. I thought I had made the right decisions until… subconsciously, I start getting dreams of simple but nice moments in the past with him… holding hands and laughing together. That’s when I realise that life can be simple. You don’t need a good looking man or a smart man. You don’t need a man who is rich. All you need is a man who treats and love you right… and a willingness to make things work.

Thought Catalog

Too many of you say that women do not really want a nice guy. You firmly believe from your bad experiences that most women actually enjoy being treated badly. I can assure you this is not true.

Your words and your actions can have effects on a woman that will last her a lifetime. That cruel comment you made about her mother, that day you were so angry you called her out of her name, those times you ignored her for no reason at all, the times you chose not to text or call and decided your friends were more important than she was, the times you didn’t open her car door, or walk her to her front door like a lady, she carries those in her mind. And she carries them over to the next man.

Women remember every nice thing you do or say in the same way…

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Stop planning ahead!

I have always been the kind of girl who cares a little bit too much about what life would be like in the future. I would discover myself to know exactly the career I want to pursue in the future. I do this because I know subconsciously how scarce our resources (time) as human being is and thus, we should spend time on developing the skills for our future career.

However, the problem with this is that no one can predict the future. Things will happen that changes situations. Therefore, it is more important to enjoy the moment!

If you were ambitious, then you should prioritize the 3 most important aspects of your life and focus solely on these while of course, being open to other aspects of life as well.

How to differentiate a good guy from a bad guy?

When it comes to men, females tend to instinctively know a good man from a bad man. However, the problem with me is that I tend to see the good in people… and most people are good, and not a psychopath. So, a friend of a friend (male) taught me explicitly what a good man and a bad man is.

He said that a good man genuinely cares about the women and respects a woman’s decision. This include not manipulating the women into doing the things that the man wants her to do, especially if they have the upper hand in the situation. In addition to that, if the man is truly good, he would respect the women to the point that he won’t even mention sex even if it had been months into the relationship.

A bad guy is selfish, who cares about wanting her more than caring for her. You know, those guys who convinces you that they are the best guy for you even if you were to tell them that you are not ready for a relationship or anything related to romance. Guys who brings up the sex topic is even worse. All they want to do is to fuck and leave you.